Welcome to Bender – The Premier Gender-Fluid Dating App

Whether you’re looking for friendship, fun, or something more, Bender helps you connect with like-minded individuals near you — or across the globe. It’s designed by LGBTQ+ people, for LGBTQ+ people.

Why “Bender”? Like the word queer, we’ve proudly reclaimed Bender. It’s playful, defiant, and full of love – just like our community.

Premium Features – Only £10/month

• ✅ Live Location Matching on Google Maps
• ✅ Browse 600+ potential matches by distance
• ✅ Smart profile previews in grid view
• ✅ Advanced filters for faster matching
• ✅ Bender Travel – match before you land
• ✅ Private & public photo sharing
• ✅ See who viewed or favourited you
• ✅ “Seal of Approval” trust feature
• ✅ Full-featured, real-time chat

Safety & Privacy

• 🛡️ Your data is never shared
• 🛡️ Secure signup and verified profiles
• 🛡️ Report and block tools built-in
• 🛡️ Private photos stay private
• 🛡️ All public images reviewed by our team
• 🛡️ Strictly for ages 18 and up

Be Bold. Be Seen. Be Fluid.

Community Love

“Finally, a dating app that actually feels like it gets me.” – Jamie (they/them)

“I met my partner within a week. Thank you, Bender!” – Alex (he/him)

Need Help?

Check out our Safety and Compliance, Acceptable Use Policy, or Data Retention Policy. We’re here for you 24/7.