Bender Dating

Bender: Where Gender-Fluid Dating Begins

Find your match, wherever you are. Stylish. Inclusive. 100% Ad-Free.

Welcome to Bender – The Premier Gender-Fluid Dating App

Whether you’re looking for friendship, fun, or something more, Bender helps you connect with like-minded individuals near you — or across the globe. It’s designed by LGBTQ+ people, for LGBTQ+ people.

Why “Bender”? Like the word queer, we’ve proudly reclaimed Bender. It’s playful, defiant, and full of love – just like our community.

Premium Features – Only £10/month

  • ✅ Live Location Matching on Google Maps
  • ✅ Browse 600+ potential matches by distance
  • ✅ Smart profile previews in grid view
  • ✅ Advanced filters for faster matching
  • ✅ Bender Travel – match before you land
  • ✅ Private & public photo sharing
  • ✅ See who viewed or favourited you
  • ✅ “Seal of Approval” trust feature
  • ✅ Full-featured, real-time chat

Safety & Privacy

  • 🛡️ Your data is never shared
  • 🛡️ Secure signup and verified profiles
  • 🛡️ Report and block tools built-in
  • 🛡️ Private photos stay private
  • 🛡️ All public images reviewed by our team
  • 🛡️ Strictly for ages 18 and up

Be Bold. Be Seen. Be Fluid.

Be Fluid Campaign
Be Seen Campaign

Community Love

“Finally, a dating app that actually feels like it gets me.” – Jamie (they/them)

“I met my partner within a week. Thank you, Bender!” – Alex (he/him)

Need Help?

Check out our Safety and Compliance, Acceptable Use Policy, or Data Retention Policy. We’re here for you 24/7.