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Bender, the premier gender-fluid dating app! With a stylish, modern look and feel, easy to use, better functionality and large range of features, Bender will help you fulfil your desire to meet and date your ideal match wherever you are.

Bender is an app created by members of the LGBTQ+ community for members of the LGBTQ+ community. Just as ‘queer’ has been reclaimed, we have reclaimed the name ‘Bender’ in the same way. Also, who doesn’t like ‘going out on a bender’ on occasion?

Bender is free to use and is totally ad-free! No more annoying pop-up banners and videos spoiling your experience.

Upgrade to Bender Premium for even more features that will enhance your ability to meet the right match.

  • Totally Ad-Free for ALL users.
  • Brand new Live Location* feature – see people live on Google Maps and chat from the live location screen.
  • Browse up to 600* potential dates sorted by distance from your current location.
  • See a summary of a potential date from the grid page.
  • New, advanced filtering facility* to make matching yourself with the right person easier and quicker.
  • Free for all users, Bender Travel – search any location anywhere around the world and arrange your dates before arriving at your destination.
  • Fully featured chat functionality with the ability to see when someone is typing* and when they have read your message*.
  • Ability to store and share public and private photos within the app.
  • Give someone a “Seal of Approval” – Do you know the person? Can you vouch for them? Did you meet up? Was it a successful date? Were they genuine? A brand-new feature that will help ensure your next date is reliable and who match their description.
  • See who Favourited Me*
  • See who viewed my profile*

* Bender Premium feature

Bender Premium **

The features marked *, above, are included in the Bender Premium subscription packages. We offer the following options:

  • Bender24 – 24-hour access to the full range of Bender Premium features – £1.99
  • BenderMonthly- £9.99
  • BenderThreeMonthly – £21.99
  • Bender365 – £59.99

** Prices excluding VAT

Bender Security and Privacy

  • No data will ever be shared with any third party.
  • Secure signup and login procedure to prevent fake profiles.
  • Ability to report and block unwanted users.
  • Keep Private photos private only share with matches you choose.
  • All public photos will be approved by Bender Admin before they are available to view.
  • Bender is for men aged 18 and over only.

Help and Support

  • 24-hour support, 7 days a week
  • Website with FAQs